..sometimes we tend to forget or maybe just being ignorance of how stupid we can be..there are saying " if you love someone, let them go..if they are meant to be yours..they'll eventually came back"..true or not..i don't know about this..but what i know is that if someone that you love went away from you..let him go and don't call him to say that he can come back anytime..i mean that would make you look like a desperate-single-and-depressed person..am i right?? RIGHT!!..just move forward and if it really meant to be..it will come..naturally..~
..it's unbelieveable how some people ( the "people" i refer to are men)..can be so muke tembok and come to see his ex and act like nothing have or had happened between them..that would makes them a very ignorance and a mean person...right?..he dumped her..and then he came again..saying that he has problems of his own and then take advantage of her again with no intention of getting back together..hmmm..sounds mean to me...i mean..have he no brain??..ok..that might be true..but doesn't he have heart?...but then again..maybe he just don't have both..
..you know, it's frustrating to see how a girl that you have known all your life can be so weak with a person name guy..i mean..she's nice, lovely and intelligent..all in one good package..but she falls apart just by one mean guy..who doesn't care on how she feels..doesn't care about her dreams and her hope towards him..gosh..what a freaking jerk he can be..honestly..i can smack his dummy head anytime!..seriously!
..it's unbelieveable how some people ( the "people" i refer to are men)..can be so muke tembok and come to see his ex and act like nothing have or had happened between them..that would makes them a very ignorance and a mean person...right?..he dumped her..and then he came again..saying that he has problems of his own and then take advantage of her again with no intention of getting back together..hmmm..sounds mean to me...i mean..have he no brain??..ok..that might be true..but doesn't he have heart?...but then again..maybe he just don't have both..
..you know, it's frustrating to see how a girl that you have known all your life can be so weak with a person name guy..i mean..she's nice, lovely and intelligent..all in one good package..but she falls apart just by one mean guy..who doesn't care on how she feels..doesn't care about her dreams and her hope towards him..gosh..what a freaking jerk he can be..honestly..i can smack his dummy head anytime!..seriously!
so to all the girls out there..wake up!..it's the new era..don't let people picked on you..don't let them played you..like my friend, nanayau said..
"Another downfall to this life partner thingy is that at certain level of the relationship, we tend to forget that the life partner is indeed, just another unique human being, with mind of its own. He or she is not a possession that can be molded or instructed as we desire, to cater and bend with our own needs and interests.
She needs the space. He needs the time. We are not entering the couple-dom to become the ultimate twins. It's about loving the differences, and grow, and keeping each other happy."
"Another downfall to this life partner thingy is that at certain level of the relationship, we tend to forget that the life partner is indeed, just another unique human being, with mind of its own. He or she is not a possession that can be molded or instructed as we desire, to cater and bend with our own needs and interests.
She needs the space. He needs the time. We are not entering the couple-dom to become the ultimate twins. It's about loving the differences, and grow, and keeping each other happy."
..so whatever happened, you decide what's best for you and I believe that only you can make your life better and not complicated..because in the end, it's you who made the decision and have to live with it..~~
